Humiliation
Better to fall on the rock, than have the rock fall up us. Better, as President Lincoln proclaimed to our nation, to "recognize the Supreme Authority and just Government of Almighty God" and "own our dependence upon the overruling power of God, to confess our sins and transgressions, in humble sorrow" than to continue in this place where "we have forgotten the gracious hand which preserved us in peace, and multiplied and enriched and strengthened us" and "in the deceitfulness of our hearts...we have become too self-sufficient to feel the necessity of redeeming and preserving grace, too proud to pray to the God that made us!" Better to humble ourselves, than suffer any more humiliation!
Abraham Lincoln got it right and changed the course of our history by recognizing Almighty God who has the power to do so.
